In this beautiful month of Ramadhan, i see alot of good things after every obstacle i go through. before i start with any points, shall i mention this earlier, it is beyond words. Here, whatever that is stated is what lies underneath my heart.
The month of Ramadan in which was revealed the Qur'an, a guidance for mankind, and clear proofs of the guidance, and the Criterion (of right and wrong). And whosoever of you is present, let him fast the month, and whosoever of you is sick or on a journey, (let him fast the same) number of other days. Allah desireth for you ease; He desireth not hardship for you; and (He desireth) that ye should complete the period, and that ye should magnify Allah for having guided you, and that peradventure ye may be thankful. (2:185)
For these past few days, i've been thinking alot much on relationships. Stop stereotyping, not male-female relationship. Engaging good communications with friends of mine strucked my mind. Not all people are the same. So, i have to treat different people differently at different timing and environment. The type of tone, language plays a part too.
Reason for this muhasabah, is to have pleasant environment, also for the betterment of else. In a way or another, im lending my hand to friends of mine to improve their character. I honestly love every one of the people whom i know. Especially to those youngsters who frequently present themselves at my most beloved mosque, Darul Ghufran Mosque. I despise who exist to be self-centered. It can just tear me down. Every conflicts occurred infront of my eyes simply hurt me despite it may not get me involved. Yet, i need someone who i really can share every single detail of my treasured feelings to him/her. I need to settle myself before guiding or being guided by friends.
I felt some pinch these days. It got me disheartened after incidences. To whom shall i share, is yet to be known. I don't want to bottle it up cos' i may create hatred among friends. So far from my intention. Alhamdulillah some relationships have been created and some are being polished.
My friends who read this, be nice to all. Just be nice. It does not make someone less decent or lose by saying 'thank you' , 'sorry' , 'please'.